Jun 23 2009
What’s SEX got to do with it?
What does sex got to do with what? I bet this is the question you’re asking… Well the answer is Dancing… what does sex have to do with dancing.. or shall i ask what does dancing have to do with sex? Well men.. put on your seat belts. We are going for a short and fast ride. This could determine whether you will be getting the goodies on that steamy hot night you two danced the night away or NOT. If you are a dancer with two left feet, no smooth moves and no technique, chances are you lost the opportunity during the first dance. And if you were lucky enough to get a second dance, chances are she felt really sorry for you and probably hadn’t scouted out the guy she REALLY wanted to dance with yet. So if you want to be in the category of being a real ricco suave’ dancer learn from these tips and video.
- Always smell and look nice. (most women are turned on by a mans scent and well-put together attire) My cousin fell in love with a guy simply because he smelled beautiful (to her that is) lol lol
- If you are nicely built, wear a semi fitted shirt. (women love curves too and strong protective shoulders are a huge turn on!!)
- Keep your hands on her body. (No where that is disrespectful however) you can place your hands on her shoulders, waist, hips, hold her hand etc. Be sure to ask her first if you can place your hand on her shoulders before doing so. You will gain “mr. gentleman” points by asking before you touch.
- Compliment her while dancing. not excessively as if you are desparate and please please please!! not on her shape or body parts!! Tell her that her hair smells nice, her dress is cute, her earrings, lipstick etc. (shows you pay attention to detail and not just the obvious.)
- Demonstate technique if you are dancing close or rubber-dumbing to reggae/soca music.. .. move your hips in a circular gliding motion. It is the motion in the ocean that might get you laid that night men!!
- Ask her if she needs a break. There is nothing worse than a man cramping a woman’s style at a party. Please dont act like a coochie watch dog. this is sooo uncool. If she says she doesn’t need a break, you’re in the game. If she says yes, tell her it was a pleasure dancing with her and chances are if you followed the rules above, she will be back; so dont panic or become an aggressive nag asking why? why? why? She’s probably just taking a moment to go brag to her friends about what a great dancer you are and how cozy you feel in her arms.
- Lastly, please please please buy the lady a damn drink after dancing to two songs!! If you dont, you wont be getting any goodies that night or ever!! Even if you’ve applied all of the above. Spend some money, quench her thirst. Dont be a skoominar, visit the bar. And dont forget to hold her hand while walking to the bar through the thick crowd.
And now back to my point. While you are doing all of this on the dance floor; smelling nice, looking manly, complimenting her, touching her gently, gyrating those hips naturally & rythmatically, there is a lot going on in her dirty little perverted mind. (yes women have filthy thoughts too. especially the single lacking ones lol) She may be thinking.. wow this guy seems as if he will be a great lover. And you’d better hope you are because at that very moment.. that first intimate contact on the dance floor and by the end of the first dance, she already know whether you will be worthy of getting the goodies or not. It may be that night if she is up for a little bad-girl fun, or it could be within the next few weeks if she really really likes you. Which ever it turns out to be, you are one lucky man!! No?
Anyway, being born as a caribbean, i grew up with exotic, sensual, whining/dancing being the norm. The grinding of hips, rubbing of bodies and twirling of the waist- line are movements that were instilled in us as soon as we were able to walk. While rythmic tempo sounds of soca and calypso music blasted throughout our homes and on the streets during festival times, the natural culture dissolved into our natural beings. Men and women both were fabulous dancers sometimes men dancing even better than the women!
Although its not a proven fact, its been said that ones creative, exotic and sensual dance moves on the floor can definately stain your partners imagination with the thoughts that you will maintain the same heated passion and chemistry in the bedroom, kitchen or wherever !!
So you see, you not-so-handsome and unwealthy men might still have a chance to sweep any woman off of her feet. You just need to make sure you have the right broom along with the right sweep. Good luck !!
PS: dont forget the breath mint….this can make or break you
